Podcast & Books
In addition to video courses, my work with couples has inspired a podcast and books.
If you’d like to explore the ideas more deeply, you can begin here.
Couples Therapy in Seven Words — Podcast
In this podcast, I explore core tensions couples face — especially the pull between stability and intimacy — with my wife and co-host Judy Alexander. We talk through questions from listeners, invite fascinating guests, and offer frameworks for thinking clearly about relationship dilemmas.
Books
The Passion Paradox: When You Feel Miles Apart and Stll Love Each Other
A hands-on workbook for couples who want to rebuild emotional closeness, restore intimacy, and rekindle passion—or heal by splitting up if you need to.
Betrayal and Forgiveness: How to Navigate the Turmoil and Learn to Trust Again
A roadmap to healing, clarity, and the power to trust again. Whether the betrayal was recent or years ago, the pain can still feel fresh.
You’re not alone—and you’re not without hope. This book guides you through the complex emotional terrain of betrayal.
Other Books
It's Not About Communication! Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy is Wrong
Written in a relatable and sometimes irreverent style, this book will help you understand the problems you’re having–and help you get on the path to solving them.
Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Couples Lose Intimacy and How to Get it Back
This book shows you how to build a lasting relationship full of passion and fulfillment.