Courses
Courses are a way to slow down, get oriented, and think more clearly about your relationship before deciding what to do next.
Courses are self-paced, with videos and guided exercises you can start immediately and take as long as you need.
Some couples use a course on its own. Others use a course to make later couples sessions more productive.
Either way, a course is a good place to begin.
The course available now, The Passion Paradox, provides a solid basis for understanding what’s happening and deciding how to proceed. Scroll down to see details.
Over time, additional courses will be added to this page, each addressing a different kind of starting point or dilemma couples often face.
When Starting With a Course Makes Sense
Starting with a course can be especially helpful if things feel confusing, overwhelming, or hard to talk about without escalation.
Courses let you move at your own pace. They give you time to reflect, absorb new ways of thinking, and develop shared language—without pressure to fix anything right away.
Self-paced video course
The Passion Paradox
The Passion Paradox introduces the framework I use in my work with couples. It’s designed to help you understand the tension between stability and intimacy—and why many couples feel stuck trying to choose between them.
You can do the course yourself, or invite your partner to do it with you. You can start immediately and work at your own pace. Some people complete the course in a day or two, and some take more time and let the ideas sink in over the course of a few weeks.
Either way, many people find that doing this course helps them calm down and see their situation with a new perspective. If you then go on to start couples sessions, you’ll already have built a solid foundation.
The Passion Paradox is divided into three parts. You can begin with Part I on its own, or enroll in the full course from the start. Many couples begin with Part I to get oriented before deciding whether to continue.
If you begin with Part I and later decide to continue, you can purchase Parts II and III separately. Enrolling in the full course includes all three parts at a lower total cost.
A way to get started on the work. Includes a free preview.
All three parts, at a lower total cost . Also includes the free preview.